“Love In Nigeria Loud, Date Nights, Matching Outfits, Church Selfies., But When You Land Abroad, No Nanny. No Family, Just Bills, Weather, Work, And Stress”- Nigerian Lady Shares How Abroad Would Test Your Marriage

Nigerian lady named Yvonne Funmi has shared how abroad would test your marriage, the lady took time to outline the benefits of marriage in Nigeria, says love is loud in Nigeria. as there are bonding moments like date nights, matching outfits, church selfies. However when couple
lands abroad…everything changes as they will be No nanny, no family, just bills, weather, work, and stress. Sharing more reasons, Yvonne stressed how the couple will eventually discover that love is not enough when there’s – laundry,, rent, kids, and, night shifts.

Yvonne shared her thoughts on Facebook, she wrote:

ABROAD WILL TEST YOUR MARRIAGE!

You see, love is loud in Nigeria.
Date nights, matching outfits, church selfies.
But when you land abroad…

– No nanny.
– No family.
– Just bills, weather, work, and stress.

Suddenly, the man who once smiled in Lagos now snaps over unwashed dishes.
The woman who used to kneel and serve your food?
Now calculating hours like, “We both work, why can’t you help?”

You will learn that:

📌 Love is not enough when there’s:

  • laundry,
  • rent,
  • kids, and
  • night shifts.

This abroad? It doesn’t break homes.
It just reveals what was never truly built.

Some couples thrive.
Many survive.
A few? Quietly drift apart until they become housemates.

If you’re planning to japa together, ask yourselves:

“Do we actually have partnership?
Or just passport plans?”

Because abroad won’t lie for you.
It will show you who you both really are.

Love is not enough!

Source: Yvonne Funmi| Facebook

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